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What Would You Do?
你想做些什么?
A lot of people seem to be unaware of who they really are... they've never stopped to figure it out, just doing what they've learned that other people expect them to do, what they think they "should" do, rather than what is right for them.
If you would prefer to find fulfillment, rather than just trudging through life, you need to break that mold. You need to really figure out who you are, and what you really want to do.
The good news is that it's pretty easy to do, although some people have trouble with the concept the first time or two. So... are you ready for it? Do you want to know how to find fulfillment in your life?
All you need is a little directed daydreaming... you just need to daydream enough to answer this question:
If you had no responsibilities, no pressures, no need to worry about making money, paying bills, doing chores, or taking care of anyone... what would you do?
This isn't asking what would you do with a billion dollars, and answers like "be with my spouse" don't really answer the question... the question is what would you DO, not who would you do it with.
There is no wrong answer... what you want to do may not be popular, or may even be looked down upon by society, but that has nothing to do with whether or not it's right for you.
I'll get this started by answering the question myself: I would travel a bit (Australia and Italy are at the top of my list), go fishing (hence the picture), write fiction, make things out of wood (particularly furniture), and design clothing (See? It doesn't have to be an "accepted" activity.).
Once you figure out what it is that you would do if you were given complete freedom, why not see if you can work some of that into your life now? I can go fishing, make things out of wood (at least small things, I don't have room anywhere for a workshop), and write without doing anything more than spending a little bit of money and dedicating the time to it. If I knew how to find software that would allow me to alter basic patterns, I might get started on the clothing, too (oh, and find someone to make it for me once I have the pattern... I don't sew, other than patches on my uniform when I was in the Army).
I'm really curious... what would you do? Anyone else for some nice relaxing fishing? If you have any inclination to do so, please answer in the comments... I would really like to know.
很多人似乎都不清楚自己到底是谁。他们从没有停止过对于这个问题的探索，但是他们真正在做的无非就是别人期望他们做的，或则说他们觉得自己应该做的，却不是什么他们想做的。
如果你希望你的人生有一种成就感，而不是碌碌无为一生，就必须打破那种模式。你得弄清楚，自己到底是谁，而且自己真正想做的又是什么。
不过幸好这个很容易，尽管有些人开始时候不太能理解。所以，你准备好了吗？你想知道怎样实现自己的人生价值吗？
你所需要的只是要有一点点的空想家精神。你只须做个白日梦，来回答下面的问题：
如果你没有任何责任，任何压力，也不需要担心赚钱，花销，杂务，以及照顾别人等等，那么你又会做什么吗？
这不是在问你如果你有10亿美元你会做什么，而且类似“和老伴快乐地度过下半生”这样的回答也不能看作是真正的回答。这个问题的核心在于你想做些什么，而不是你要怎样来打发这些时间。
对于这个问题，其实没有什么答案是错误的。也许你想做的不是主流，甚至可能被社会所排斥，但这并不影响是不是就是你想做的。
我可以自己先来回答这个问题：我可能会想去旅游（澳大利亚和意大利是我的首选之地），钓鱼（还能欣赏周围美丽的风景），写写小说，拿木头做点东西（尤其可以做做家具），设计服装也不错（看吧，我想做的，并不一定是要为大众所接受的。）
一旦你清楚自己如果有完全的自由会做些什么的话，为什么不从现在就开始做呢？我可以去钓鱼，可以搞些木头来玩玩（起码可以做些小东西，我没有什么地方来做工作室），也可以就花些时间和精力写点东西。如果我知道怎样能找到可以改变式样的软件，我可能真的就开始设计衣服了（哦，如果我有了模版，我得找个人帮我来做。就像我在部队的时候，制服上的补丁，我可以不用自己缝了）。
我是真的很好奇，你会做什么？还有人想要去钓鱼吗？如果你也有此意，请在回复时写上。我真的很想知道大家的想法。
[责编：朱静]
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